[MF] The time I almost had a threesome, fun but blue balled

My ex and I were very open about our sexual desires, so one day she asked me if I’d like to see her kissing girls and I said yes of course. We’re both straight but she wanted to try kissing a girl. So we started drinking right before going to a club Saturday night, full, we got there already pretty drunk. We started dancing, drinking more and enjoying (all of this was before covid), we saw the girls working there, they looked like hooters girls, nice asses, she wanted to flirt with them but they were too busy doing their job lol, so we kept looking and dancing. My ex (she’s white) finds this hot black girl with a tiny dress almost showing up down there. She was dancing in the pole, but she wasn’t working she was just there like us, the view is super hot, we stare at her. If you had to guess you’d say she was totally single. Just pole dancing almost showing up to everyone. The pole wasn’t very high so I told my girl she should try to flirt with her. She agreed so as soon as she got down she did flirt and after a few words they almost immediately started kissing. So hot to see. Then she whispered something to my girl, I wasn’t close enough to hear. She leaves and I notice my girl made a face to me, she leaves to another part of the club with her couple whom I never noticed. My girl comes back to me and I told her how hot that was. She loved the kisses, so soft and different she said about girls vs men. I ask her what she told her, she said she invited us to share room having sex with her husband at her place. I was like husband? Damn haha. We would have loved to go but we knew it wasn’t safe so she declined the offer. Who knows what could have happened in there, we were both open enough to experiment with others like that, even more than sharing room.