My wife and i have been together almost 15 years and always talked about other ladies join us. The chance never came up. When it did things just didn’t line up. But it changed when we were invited to a bonfire. Drinks were going and everyone was having a good time.
It got later into the evening people started to leave. The hostess (who was single) was left along with her ex fling or whatever you want to call it. I thought we might be cock blocking so I sent the wife a text I think we should get going. She sends a message back telling me the hostess which we will call A (which is also her friend and they casually flirt) is waiting for the ex to leave and then sends him a message asking him when he is leaving. The guy looks up and asks if we are staying the night and I look up kind of confused saying “ya I think we are”. The guy shortly leaves and then I think we were being used to push the guy out the door.