I have no impulse control and I’m not sure I want any. I’m a man in my 30’s, good job, I own my house and I pay my bills, I work out and I eat well. Generally a very functional adult. I test my drugs and I have safe sex. But I do a lot of both.
When I was younger it was sleeping with random girls from bars, off the internet, neighbors, friends, any time I felt like it. I have slept with every one of my coworkers who I find attractive and one who I don’t. I love taking women to a few swinger resorts around town, watching them fuck a couple other guys while I jack off or fuck those guy’s women. For the last few years I’ve been really into sex workers. I treat them well, but I patronize them often. I still sleep with non sex workers but I’ve developed a bit of a fetish for transactional sex. I know a lot of men do that for a feeling of control, I think for me it’s simply convenience and the fact that I know I just get to leave, and I never have to look them in the eye again. In some cases I will choose to go pay someone over a naturally occurring hookup. I do it at massage parlors, independent girls, on my lunch breaks, sunday mornings, anytime the mood strikes me. I also dabble with a lot of drugs(no opiates of any kind, no meth and no needles but quite literally everything else).