You know when you first see or experience something and it, for better or worse, changes your view or perspective on something forever? An amazing meal, a new sensation, that first white hair, an unexpected confession from someone you respect, a fart you trusted but knew you couldn’t. You get my drift. For me it was when I went down the rabbit hole looking for a casual encounter on Craigslist. I am largely ignorant of many things, being the focused shut-in that I am, so I had no idea that Craiglist had an “adult services” tab. That fateful click has lead me to spending, or wasting depending how I saw it at the time, on risky, adrenaline fueled meetings with women of different walks of life and has, in no way, helped my mental wellbeing.