A bit of background to begin. I am a 55 year old man. I’ve been married to my 2nd wife for 12 years, and we’ve been together for nearly 18. Life is good. But…
My wife has gone through menopause, as 50+ year old women do. Sex isn’t spontaneous anymore. We’ve fallen into the “Sunday morning sex” routine, which generally involves a lot of lube and I’m still not really able to penetrate all the way.
There is a girl that I’ve known for more than 10 years. We met her when she was a teenager, taking care of a horse in the stable where we had our mare boarded.
“T” and I were friendly, and she was very flirty and open about sex (she was still a virgin when we first met).
The years went by, and I would occasionally text “T” just to ask how she was doing. About 3 years ago (when she was 25) she told me that she was going to get married. Great! She found a guy and wanted to start a family!
We stayed in contact after her wedding – just innocent “hey babe, how’s it going?” types of messages. She would reply back that things were good.