I am twenty eight and my first time was during this past weekend. I have always had difficulty with meeting new people, I can have pretty bad social anxiety. Over the course of the summer I tried various dating apps: OKCupid, Tinder, Bumble, and many more. At first I was simply looking for someone to build a relationship with. After two months being stood up multiple times a week I just gave up on dating apps and decided to check out craigslist casual encounter ads; nearly all of the ad’s on craigslist are fake or the poster is looking for a pornstar bull.
I went back to the apps and eventually discovered an app called Feeld (formerly 3nder), the purpose of the app is to help connect people for threesomes. A threesome is something that seems exciting and worth trying out. After a few weeks of swiping I finally got matched with a girl who had just gotten out of a long term relationship and was looking for no strings sex. Her demands where that I be rough and that I go down on her, things that fortunately I was very interested in doing. We spoke for a day and made plans to meet but her schedule got busy. A few weeks passed and she contacted me and we met that night. She was hanging out in a college town, we wanted to get a hotel but it was expensive due to a home football game.