[MF] In college I helped a friend of a friend move in to her new apartment… then we had sex on her new bed and tried out her new shower.

Back when I was in college I was pretty involved in a student group. Melanie was an incoming transfer student who knew a recent alum who was also really involved in that group. The alum posted on the organization’s Facebook group, asking if anyone could help Melanie move into her apartment in a few days. There was a promise for pizza.

In college I was always down for whatever, that alum was a good friend, and saw pizza so why not. I honestly wasn’t thinking of anything sexy, and a couple of other guys volunteered too so there wasn’t really any potential.

Then the day of, the two other guys flaked so it ended up just being me showing up. When Melanie came down to greet me at the moving truck I was thinking “damn! Those guys missed out.” It was September in California so it was 90 degrees, and Melanie was looking very cute in her tank top and short shorts. She was about 5′ 0″ with a nice smile, and said she was really thankful I showed up since she definitely couldn’t lift all this stuff herself. I was glad to help!

[MF] Long-time friend and I hooked up at our Coachella AirBnB

The hottest moment of my life but also super meaningful? I’m still processing this and I thought it would be good to type it out here. There’s a lot of build-up so if you just want the good stuff you will have to scroll a bit.

Amber and I met about 6 years ago, in college on the West Coast. When we met I was in a relationship with someone else. So even though Amber is super cute, since I was in a relationship when we met I didn’t really think of her that way. But we were in the same friend group and became good friends in our own way. Then after college my relationship ended, but by then Amber had moved back to the East Coast. Plus I was in a sad place after the breakup so I still didn’t really think of Amber that way. Our whole friend group kept in touch though, and sometimes we would all go on joint trips (except my ex), about 10 of us. The group went to Coachella once during college and had a blast, and after not being able to meet up for 2 years because of the pandemic, we decided to all go to Coachella again. Heading into it I wasn’t even thinking about Amber in that way, I was just excited to have everyone back together.