A couple of weeks ago, I met up with a German couple I met on Tinder. They were tourists, in town for a week, looking for someone that would put the ‘three’ in threesome. After a couple of days of enthusiastic back-and-forth messaging, we decided to meet up in a restaurant to have dinner. Although I had fantasized about having a threesome for years, and although they appeared to be kind people, I wasn’t entirely sure whether I actually wanted to have sex with them – after all, we might not get on as well in real life as we did online. I told them about this beforehand: we would just meet each other, find out whether there’s a connection – and then we’d see what would happen afterwards. They were perfectly understanding. Although I wasn’t sure whether we would end up having sex together, I shaved and put on some nice lingerie. Just in case.
I arrived too early at the restaurant. Truth be told, I was a bit nervous. I went to the bathroom and sat there for a while, just thinking about what I had got myself into. I had some second thoughts, but since I was already there and since it would be rude to cancel at the last minute, I mustered my courage and just went for it. That turned out to be a good decision: we had a wonderful time at dinner.