This happened about 7 years ago, and while not the first time crossing the lines physically outside of my marriage, it was the first time I had sex with a woman other than my wife. To make sure this point is clear, I lost my virginity to my wife while we were dating and then went on to marry her. So up until this story, she was the only woman I’d ever had sex with.
I had been toying with the idea of finding a friend with benefits for a while, and had met up with a few women here and there, but none of them seemed to be what I was really looking for, and aside from some make out sessions, fingering, and blow jobs I was still looking for someone. I ended up posting an ad on Craigslist and I was brutally honest with where I was. I indicated I was married, and tired of being alone.