Author: Hardinvasion

How I [M]et my second poly partner who satisfied my dominance [F]antasies

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After my [first bdsm experience](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/jb3ekt/how_my_first_sub_f_showed_me_the_ropes/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share) ten years ago, I (then, 23 M) started to get more and more involved with the kink community in my city. Ella (22 F), my old Army friend, was now my poly partner, but I didn’t see other women (yet!). I guess you can call it fwb, but we were much more involved than just friends. We loved each other and our other partners, but loved each partner differently.

Ella introduced me to many kinks and helped me figure out my likes and dislikes. More importantly, she taught me how to connect with other kinky people. She showed me how FetLife works, and took me with her to bdsm events like play parties and munches. Munches are vanilla events in public spaces where bdsm folk socialize casually. The first munch Ella took me is where I met Iris (25 F). Read more »

How [M]y first sub [F] showed me the ropes…

Ten years ago I (M 23 at that time) was fresh out of military service. My girlfriend couldn’t wait, so we broke up only a few months before. So there I was, free from relationship and serving my country. Back during my recon training, I met Ella (F 22. not her real name, but close). An instructor that taught us how to operate and maintain recon equipment. She was very slender, 5’6″ and super outgoing. We both clicked over music taste, and friended each other on Facebook. Since I had a girlfriend, I didn’t think it would go anywhere, but she was the first person I thought of when I was single again.

Ella was happy to hear my service was over when I messaged her on fb. She was out a year before me, and I noticed her relationship status said ‘it’s complicated’. When I asked her about it, she offered to tell me more about it over a drink. Wow. I love when girls are forward! Read more »