When I first brought up this fantasy to my wife I think she was confused. Her concern was why would I want to share her with another man. I must admit, I kinda felt the same way. I mean I wasn’t even sure why I felt the need to see her with someone else. The thought of someone’s hands all over her body would make me feel all kinds of mixed feelings. On one hand, the naughtiness and lustfull feeling of my fantasy coming true would get me really excited, but on the other hand the taboo feeling and the way people would judge us if anyone found out would scare and make me feel wrong. All my life society has taught me that a man should marry have children and live a monogamous life, but what I felt was not that much different. I felt as if I could have all that and still have this secret sex life with the person I loved. I explained to my wife my thoughts on this fantasy, how I felt sex was just that sex. No strings attached no feeling involved and as long as we were both OK with it there was nothing wrong. We were not hurting anyone.