I use OKCupid for dating. But occasionally I use it for hook ups too. I go through very busy periods with my work, where I don’t want to date. I just want to fuck.
That has been the case recently, and I managed to check something off my sexual to do list as a result.
I saw her profile, which was geared more for dating, but she had also listed under “casual sex.” She’s older than me. I’m 33. She’s 39. But she was blonde, fit, and fairly pretty. Not a knockout, but an average looking woman with a pretty smoking body. That’ll do.
My first message:
“So you’re a tall, good looking blonde who joined to find people to have sex with? I can’t even imagine how many messages you get every day.”
Her reply
“I guess that maybe I need to change that? It’s an honest answer. Sex is important to me. It’s really not my only reason for being on here though. Does it seem crass to you?”
We chit chatted a bit, and then she asked what I was looking for. What would be ideal for me.