Going back to October of 2014, I started a /r/dirtypenpals RP with someone, and since then we’ve kept it going with frequent exchanges. We send messages every day or two. I recently turned 30, I’m 6’1″, and about 200lbs. I travel a ton for work, and eat out a lot, so I’m a few pounds heavy, but not bad looking. I described my character physically as a reflection of myself, but maybe in a bit better shape.
My partner’s writing was amazing, and she was creative in all the best ways. At one point she sent me a 4000 word scene describing getting herself off with a vibrator while imagining my character fucking her. It was beyond erotic, and was skirting toward, dare I say, literature. She described her character as 5’8″, blonde hair, blue eyes, and, obviously, gorgeous..
Anyways, as time went on, we started writing more out of character, usually a paragraph or two before the good stuff started up. Over that time, we definitely formed a kind of friendship, albeit one predicated on writing dirty dirty smut to each other, so sex was always an over-arching theme. My DPP partner never physically described herself, but early on did say that she was a college student, English Lit major, just about to graduate.