It’s important to preface with a little background on my physiology. I am a bit on the small side, and tend to be in good shape. That means that my vagina is very, very small and tight. That may sound… great? But for me it means that sex up til now has been scary, and painful, and bad. Not many teenage boys or young men have the experience or patience to get me ready for a dicking- instead they just go for it and I either power through with tears or force them to stop. To be frank, I thought I hated having sex, and have gone 3+ years without being intimate.
Maybe because of my awful experiences with men- but I am also attracted to girls and have had sex with ladies since I was sixteen. Usually just close friends playing around with our bodies. Thank god for vibrators- I got my first one at nineteen, and have had an orgasm every day since.
Last February, after staying up late drinking and talking, my transgender friend “Amanda” and I slept together. We didn’t go terribly far, but it was fun and comfortable. We decided to keep going with it, and are now dating as a couple.