About 8 years ago, I told my husband about my being turned on by women. It came from watching porn together. He asked me about it because I always got super wet when there was girl on girl stuff. So I just sucked it up and told him about how I had fantasized about other girls since I was in middle school. I was a little scared, didn’t want to freak him out. But he took it just fine, seemed excited by it in fact, and he told me how much it turned him on to watch two women. So that was much easier than I expected, and I was able to tell him about my fantasies, my girlfriends in high school that I fantasized about, etc.
We talked about it many times, and he was as turned on by the thought of me and another woman, as I was. We decided we would go away on vacation to an adults-only resort. We looked in to places and decided on a resort in Jamaica.