My wife and I met online on a kink website that no longer exists. I don’t think either of us were looking for more than some good, fetish-filled, no hassle sex at the time. That was the extent of our relationship for the first few months and it was amazing. What was even better was that we got to know each other and realised that we enjoyed doing things together outside the bedroom too.
Starting a relationship this way has a number of advantages. For example, when you know someone’s deepest darkest fantasies before you even meet in person then communicating thoughts and feelings comes pretty easily. Another bonus has been that sex has always remained a key part of our relationship, even more than 10 years and two kids later.
We don’t have the free time to have long sessions of filth and depravity like we used to but we make it work, even when tired and having to keep quiet – we’ve actually become very good at cumming with minimal noise!
Of course this means that when we get some time and space away from the family then we really like to let loose. Recently we got to spend a lovely weekend together at a hotel, which involved taking a small suitcase with minimal clothes and maximum toys.