My [f]irst time with a girl while her boy[f]riend slept next to us

This happened a few weeks ago and I figured this would be a good first story to post here.

So my friend (we’ll call her Em) and I are both bi. We’ve talked about having a threesome together for a while, but for one reason or another, it’s never happened. She lives an hour away, which doesn’t help us plan things out either. Throughout all this we would send each other nudes, but didn’t really talk explicitly about what we wanted to do with one another.

So the current hang-up was that she had a boyfriend, and he didn’t want her to do anything sexual with anyone else without him. (And I didn’t want to be their third because I’m not attracted to her dumbass bf whatsoever lol) So we put that idea on hold.