For the first time ever I have managed to get together with a girl who seems to be just as sexually explorative as myself. To be honest it's a breath of fresh air. No more "trying to figure out the best way to bring it up" kind of stuff. Just full on "I like this" what about you. No judgment, other than a bit of laughing when I showed up in my man thong… and lots of communication.
So after our first time having a MFF which I fucked up massively and only fucked the other girl (yes our swinging stories end in disaster more often than not but it doesn't stop us) we decided to try to start swapping with other couples. The first time was a bit of a big bust. We met this couple on CL and they seemed pretty cool. We got to the club and my girl (let's call her Gerty cause it makes me laugh) decides that to calm her nerves she was going to drink and ended up throwing up all over the place. We ended the night with no sex and laughing in the parking lot of a swingers club just the two of us. Probably one of my favourite times in our relationship.