I was dating this girl for a few months before she ever let on any hint that she was submissive. One day driving home, it just came up – somehow we got to talking about bondage and BDSM, and I'll never forget how she said "yeah…we can try that." It took a few minutes to register that my girlfriend was telling me she was curious about being tied up and collared. Every girl I dated before her was sort of kinky, but none of them were as deeply perverted and totally submissive as her. When we got home, we cuddled in bed and looked up a list of different kinks and fetishes related to BDSM. We would read and tell each other which kinks we were interested in, and I was shocked when she pointed out "rape-play" with a smile, saying again "yeah, we can try that…" I was only a junior in college, and she was two years younger than me – I couldn't believe she had already fantasized about rape play at age 19. She brought up our planned visit to her parents' house over Thanksgiving break, when we'd have the whole weekend in the house to herselves…"Maybe you can put me in my dog's cage…" We slept together that night without having sex or even undressing, promising each other that our next session would be very… experimental.