The question we get a lot when people find out we are swingers is “how did y’all get into this?”
We had only been dating for a few months and somehow we got on the subject of: what our favorite type of porn video to watch was? We both said MFF 3some porn.
Maddie and I then asked in unison “what if we had a 3some!?”
She had had one a year or so ago with a girlfriend and a guy who would later became her boyfriend for 6 months, but all in all it was not that great of an experience she said, but she did come away from it with a boyfriend.
We said early on “no friends”. A rule we have mostly kept to this day…we kind of broke it in New Year’s Eve 2019, which could be another fun story to write….So how do we find people? Apps? For some reason we decided to try and meet someone in the “wild” rather than on an app (in our defense we hadn’t realized there were apps for this sort of thing yet). Anyways trying to meet someone while bar hoping in East ATL was quite awkward and we will definitely never try it again.