My ex husband and I got married young. Probably too young, as we hit some rocky times almost immediately. Of course, we deeply love one another, but there were some foundational issues that ultimately made our marriage suffer. So, bittersweetly, we divorced young, though we still remain very close with each other.
I’ve always been this sexual, flirty, open type of woman. Was completely comfortable in my own skin, and frankly love male attention. Bikini contests and even a brief stint as a stripper paid my college bills. My ex, is more of a quiet reserved type.
While we were together, we used to play this game while we were out at a bar. We’d go there, and I would sit by myself, him looking on from a distance. A guy would approach me, and I would flirt with him, chat him up. If we were at a club, I’d dance with him, in a very close, physical, sexual way. My ex, would get off on this, just watching me all over this guy, just watching us. At the end of the night, I used my marriage as an excuse and I parted ways with the guy. I think the most I ever took it, was some heavy groping and a discrete lap dance. Then when returning home, my ex and I would have the most passionate sex ever.