So about a month ago a former teacher of mine in grad school moved down to S Florida from Boston and we reconnected. We were always more collegial than your typical teacher/student relationship and we picked up where our friendship left off a few years back. Anyway we’d met up for lunch several times, he then shared he wasn’t happy in his marriage, also shared that he had always had feelings for me. I told him I was flattered but that he needed to work on his marriage and that I didn’t see him like that. He pulled back on how much we were seeing each other and then I started to miss him. We met for lunch again and we ended up hooking up. A ton of crazy shit already going on here but then add that he’s 70 to my 35 and he’s like legit in love. I’m down to keep our friends with benefits thing going but he wants more…not sure how this shit happens to me lol.