(I am 22 and Female). So I’ve only been with three boys/men in my life. One from ages 16-18, one from 18-20, and one from 20-22, still with the last. Please don’t think I’m a boyfriend hopper. I never intended each time to get into a relationship again so quickly. In fact, before I met my current SO, I was determined not to date for a year or so. But I literally couldn’t help myself and fell helplessly in love with this guy. He was also the one who took my virginity. I’m happy to say I made the right choice with that. No regrets.
So. Even though I was a virgin before I met him, sex has always been important to me and I think it’s important to be sex-positive and to not feel that sex is a taboo subject. Everyone does it, and it’s natural. So, before I even met my SO, I already knew what I was into and stuff. I am into rape fantasies, light bondage, basically anything in which the man is dominant and I am submissive. Outside of the bedroom my SO is very sweet and loving and kind and sort of does whatever I tell him to (we’re working on that because he needs to know his own opinion matters, too).