I love a good tongue or tease with a finger but I’ve never truly been into anal all the way. He has taken a big interest recently especially since I’ve relaxed into a tongue more than ever. With a previous partner, like most guys do, he rushed into it and made it painful/unenjoyable. With my current, he’s very open with communication and listening to what I want.
One of my favorite things is laying on my stomach with a vibrator on my clit, with my legs spread, while he uses his tongue on my ass. I cum super hard from it but I definitely need the clit stimulation. The other day he was doing this for 15-20 minutes non stop, enjoying every minute and it was actually quite intimate. We both discussed after and decided we want to continue exploring so I can overcome the bad experience I had prior.
3-5 times a day now he randomly rips my pants down, pushes me up against a wall/counter/bed, aggressively spreads me open and orders me to spread my legs, and then goes to town with his tongue all over my ass. I’ve never felt more vulnerable and every time I feel his tongue graze me and enter me, it flips a switch inside of me. The kicker is that he enthusiastically teases and plays with me until I’m begging for more, and the moment he realizes I want it, he stands me up, pulls my pants up and pretends like nothing happened. It’s the biggest tease and it’s slowly training me to want my ass played with more and more.