So this is a bit of a story that I’m still reeling from. I had my first FFM last night and there are many more to come.
We met T through my middle son. Her son and he are fast friends and my wife and her really hit it off. Learning more about her and her situation we find out that she’s a semi-recent single mom and that she’s paying for both before and after school care. That is really expensive and we soon insisted that he come to our house during that time. We later further learn that they’re sharing a small room in a home that’s not really kid friendly. So that all eventually led to us offering our home and spare room.
Last week after the decision had been made the 3 of us had a late night drinking and laughing and talking and of course sex comes up because what else do drunk adults talk about at 2 a.m.? Much to my surprise T starts coming on to K. For context we are basically virgins. We’ve semi-recently escaped Mormonism. We were married at 19 and 21 and have only ever been with each other. We’ve been discussing swinging and were/are really close to diving into the lifestyle. So while her advances were unanticipated they were not necessarily unwelcome. Nothing happened that night but the outcome seemed inevitable.