told a fit [M] to dm my [F] wife.

I was horny one day and starting to watch some porn. Got into a hole of cuck videos. Being a slim guy I got the idea of a muscular dude fukcing my (25) wife. She went to the gym about 1-2 times a week so I decided to look up the gym on Insta and seen the recent post tagged there. I found a fit, 30-ish, muscular dude and dm’d him. He found my request weird at first. I had asked him to dm my wife and if he found her hot and she was willing, he could fuck. My wife didn’t know about any of this. he was a bit confused at first but eventually said he wasnt going to do it. he asked for the insta profile name, and said he will look but he wont send a dm. He doesn’t know that I secretly have my wife’s login data. so I got to see that he liked a few photos and sent a dm simply saying “hey”. I thought if i should block him or let it ride. was super horny so I let it ride. I then seen some back and forth talking, nothing too crazy but he was flirting hard. My gf resisted but did give into some light flirting. I had to go away and do some work but later when I checked the DM was deleted. wonder what happened… if they moved to texting or what.