I have been asked to tell how the first real cuckold session after me playing voyeur to my wife Sasha and our friend Chaz was. I hadn’t been cheated on since we were in an open relationship. But after having cuckold fantasies and finally seeing them fuck by pure coincidence, I came clean to Sasha.
It took us a while to figure things out and we got advice from other swingers we knew, who had dabbled with cuckoldry. Even more awkward was finding a bull. As it is essentially bringing a third person into your relationship. And the chemistry between all has to be right. Sasha and I both agreed we wanted someone we knew and could trust ideally. Finally we settled on asking Chaz. He fullfilled all the classical hallmarks of a bull, bachelor/ womanizer, powerful muscular build and good equipped in the right spots.
The initial talks were awkward. And we found all the talking Sasha and I had done, had to be done again with Chaz. We defined some rules and boundaries, though the goalposts of those have moved over time and will probably keep moving as time goes on. Chaz was officially the designated bull. And I say designated, because the first time was pretty disappointing for all of us.