Still can’t really believe it went down like it did, and felt like this would be a good story for my first post here. This happened a few years ago so I may mix up a few of the details, but the core story line happened exactly as described. It’s a bit long. (EDIT: holy shit… it’s really long). For me, the sexiest part was all the build up – but if you disagree, you can skip to the ****
For some back-story: I’d been married for (too many) years to a woman who was abusive and who told me regularly that I was undesirable. Long painful story short, this all led to me having a bit of a confidence problem for awhile, even after we split up. However, some time without her, followed by a bit of surprisingly successful dating around had me finally realizing that I still “got it” and I felt my old playful confident self coming back.