My [f]irst time [cheating]… I feel bad about it now, but I know I needed it then

I’m writing this post partly because I need to get it all down in writing so I can think clearer about it, and partly, if I’m honest about it, because the experience still turns me on a lot and I want to share it with other people. Please reserve your moral judgement – I’m doing enough of that to myself! I’m just going to tell you what happened, in all the steamy detail, and I hope you’ll enjoy it and tell me what you think.

My name’s Katie. I’m a 24 year old girl doing a PhD in English Literature at a well-known college. I might as well describe what I look like – I’m 5″8, have medium length, straight blonde hair and a big smile, and I’m slim and athletic. Since I’m sure you’ll want to know, I’ve got perky, medium-sized breasts, just the right size for guys (or girls, for that matter) to cup in their hands.

I have a long distance boyfriend whom I’ve been with since I was an undergrad. I care about him and when he visits we have a very vigorous sex life – and doesn’t my roommate know it! – but I’ve been finding it hard during term time when he’s away. I’ve never wanted to cheat, and everything that’s happened here was basically a mistake, but I’d be lying if I said it wasn’t a mistake I enjoyed making.