My husband and I have indulged two more times with the woman who looks (and even acts) a lot like my mom. The first time after was the first time I’d been with her since someone mentioned how much she was a doppelgänger for my mother.
The three of us had dinner and went to a show and had an otherwise amazing evening together. We booked a hotel for the weekend together, and when we got back from our date night, we were all pretty jazzed up and turned on (the wine at dinner helped too).
My husband wanted to watch us kiss and play with each other while he sat on the bed next to us. I wasn’t…hesitant, but I was worried that having a flash to thinking about how she looked like my mom would take me out of the moment and out of the mood.