I lost [M]y virginity to a hot mil[F] while her husband watched and filmed us. After that I visited her/them a few times a month for about four years.

I couldn’t believe it either when it happened, but there you go. *Life’s a trip que no?*

So here’s how it went.

I had, to my disappointment, managed to navigate all of school and university without having sex although I had had a couple of girlfriends briefly.

I have been told that I am good looking by enough people over the years but because I was bullied for basically 10 years of my life I never had much self esteem or confidence, hence why I never had much success with girls.

One night I was walking home from a non-event of a night out where two “friends” had bailed on me. I was nearly home when this dude pulls up in his car next to me, he asks if I wanted some free sex. I realise I had initially misheard him because I thought he was asking if I knew where he could get free sex. Anyway when I realised what he was asking I said what do you mean? He said his wife wanted to have sex with a black man (spoiler, I’m black) and I was like ‘oooh OK.’