This took place approximately 8 months after my wife and I had our first baby. After the baby arrived, my wife and I stopped being intimate for several months.
At first, over the first 6 weeks, it was not from lack of trying, we were just constantly exhausted. We maybe had 2 or 3 quickies where orgasms were had, but they lacked the passion and lust we were used to
Later, our fatigue was topped by a complete disappearance of our libido. We just did not feel like it anymore.
6 months passed and we were finally preparing for our first vacations as a couple since we navale parents.
I was anxious about sex. Would the envy come back? What if her libido came back while mine was still close to zero? What if it was the other way around? Several scenarios run in my mind, and they all led to some kind of disappointment.
Fast forwarding to day 3 of our holidays. We spent our day trekking a tropical forest and the destination was a secluded guest house. Upon arriving the host quickly welcomed us and let us cool down. She was nice enough to offer us cold beers and fresh fruits, which were more than welcome in that heat.