[MF] Fucking on a nude beach

One summer, my girlfriend at the time (Sally, 25) and I (27) were doing a long-distance walk up the coast of Wales. We were following paths but at one point we had to walk along a beach that stretched for over ten miles. As we plodded along we came across a sign that said that the next few hundred metres was designated a nude beach. This wasn’t something we knew about, but we’d occasionally talked about it, and liked being naked in public, so we both glanced at each other, anticipating something was going to happen.

It was early summer and although it was a nice day there weren’t many people on the beach. We passed a couple of older guys sunbathing with their cocks out, but no one else – no young fit beauties for us to enjoy pretending not to look at. As we began to approach the sign on the other side of the beach showing the end of the nude portion, Sally asked if we should take a break, and put her pack down on the ground. I followed suit and we lay down with our heads on one of the packs looking out to sea.

[MM] My first blowjob was from another man

When I was 18, just out of school, I was on a trip through Austria with a friend (f). We stayed one night in a youth hostel and hung out with this older wirey blond guy from Italy, about 21. We had supper together and went for a walk in the woods with all the fireflies around us. When it came time to turn in he and I went to the dorm and he took the bottom bunk and I took the top. I noticed he stripped down to just his boxers and I kept my shirt on.

After about an hour or so, I felt him shift underneath me and step onto the floor. The bunks were quite low and from a standing position he was able to reach over my body and stroke my legs, then stopped. I shifted slightly but didn’t stop him so he did it again. I took his hand, and then the climbed up the stairs on top of me as I shifted onto my back.

[MM] First times experimenting with another guy

This all took place a time that I was going through a bad patch at university – staying up until 3am, getting up at midday, drinking too much. I didn’t have many friends so I spent ages in the computer room, messing around online. In this period, I was interested in other men – the thought of them kind of turned me on. I’d had one experience in a youth hostel when I was 18 and found that although I liked the idea of touching another man’s cock, I didn’t like kissing other men and I wasn’t turned on by the smell of male sweat.

At the same time, I was questioning whether my attitude on sexuality was rooted in the homophobic schools I went to, and I was trying to feel that I should try to cast this off be open to new experiences, male or female. I was quite eager to reject the labels and just explore pleasure as it came. This seems to be more normal now – I was obviously going to university at the wrong age!

[MF] My (21) first times with a girl (21) at university

First times with a girl I met at University. For sex go to *******************

When I was in my final year at university in 2001, I directed a female choir for a concert. When the concert was over, one of the girls in the choir sent around a circular email saying she had a ticket for the theatre. I happened to be sitting opposite her in the computer room (this was 2001), read the email, and told her I’d go. We were both 21, she as about 5’8”, dark brown hair that hung in shoulder-length ringlets around her, hazel eyes that were dark like pools that you could get lost in. I was better looking than I am now, but still inexperienced.

This was the start of a very ill-advised romance. She had a boyfriend, who had just graduated and had gone to China to teach English. I had a girlfriend who was at another university. So we should have seen the danger and avoided it. But instead we got drunk one night, kissed, spent the night together but didn’t get further than touching. We both decided it was a bad idea and we decided to chalk it up to a mistake. The next day told my girlfriend and she called it off. I was upset, she came and comforted me, and we started a pattern that continued for the rest of term.