Right after college I lived in the city in a downtown apartment. Tall building, huge windows, . At that point in my life I was ultra career focused and single. I was in a new city, so when I started living there I didn’t have a lot of friends to go out with at the time.
I was at the top of the building – the tenth floor. My apartment’s windows were only on one side facing an alleyway and an adjoining apartment. I first noticed my neighbor across the way because she rarely closed her blinds. Her windows spanned across much of her apartment: her living room, her bedroom, and an opaque glass window that only let shadows through that I can only assume was her bathroom. My apartment took up about half of the building width wise and she was on the top floor of her building (I think it must have been about 7 or 8 stories high). Given the staggered blueprint of our two apartments, I was probably the only one who had a clear view into her windows when I looked down.