My ex-wife and I started going to swingers clubs during the final year of our marriage. It all started when we were planning a trip to Vegas. She wanted to see a topless show, and somehow the research of that morphed into researching strip clubs, and then finding out about swingers clubs.
We had months until that trip was coming, so as time went on, we researched clubs closer to home. We started going about once a month, and we both loved watching, and being exhibitionists. We’d role play at home discussing involving other people with us, but we never did. There were a few times we would have sex in the common areas that other couples would join on the bed next to us, but that was the closest we ever got.
Then we separated.
Of course we kept fucking. We had a great sexual chemistry, so why not?
Then we decided to go to one of the clubs together. Since we were now separated, I think we were both more comfortable with anything happening. We had both been fucking other people, so we were really cool with it.