My wife and I have been together for about 5 years and only recently got married. Our sex life is good, but despite having been together for so long, we’ve never really had a true heart to heart about fantasies, turn-ons, kinks, etc. and our sex is mostly “vanilla”.
However, last week when I was out, she went to use my computer to pull up something (we both use each other’s computers all the time and hbo max doesn’t work on her computer, no red flag here) and I must have accidentally forgotten to close my incognito browser that I was “using” the night before.
Porn has never been an issue for us. She knows I watch it from time to time, but she is simply not into it and it has never done much for her. She likes sexy scenes in movies and things like that, but regular porn doesn’t do it. I am however into a variety of ethically-sourced porn and user submitted reddit content.
For the longest time, I have had a mild MFM-threesome/hotwife fantasy. I know this is 100% something I wouldn’t do in real life, especially in a relationship, but something about the fantasy of it is really hot to me on a few different levels.