F20/F20
I had been dating a girl for less than a month and things had gotten sexual fairly early on. We realized that we had great chemistry.
She had a conversation with me about her kinks. Many I haven’t tried before but was very willing. She also told me how she wants me to fuck her.
Basically- she wanted me to hurt her, and not to stop until she said the safe word. I’m not sure what she wanted entirely but I took this as a hint to stop asking if she was okay every five minutes, and asking if she wanted to have sex before having sex. I also took this as a sign to be more rough and dominant.
It took a few days for me to get comfortable with this idea. I had to trust that I was allowed to do anything and if she didn’t want something she would tell me or say the safe word. I also never hit anyone or called them names without stopping sex to ask if they were okay. Eventually I was ready. I invited her over, hinting that she should be ready to get fucked as soon as she steps through the door.