It started a few years ago just before covid when I had met a woman a few years younger than me on tinder.
She was 31, had been single mom for four years and worked as a nurse, all while taking college classes while her kid was in school.
We had texted back and forth for about three weeks before she wanted to meet. We lived about 60mi from one another but i knew what city she lived and worked in. I knew I had a few day job lined up in her area and suggested that we could meet for lunch to get that unpleasantness out of the way and if we didnt connect it wouldnt be too much effort and time wasted on either side. She agreed but didnt know what day would work out so we agreed i would just come to her work and eat our lunches together.
The nest day we decided was good enough as any so i drove to where she said and she hopped in and we drove to an area she liked to park at to eat. We basically continued on about things we had been talking through texts until out of knowhere she asked me about something i had put in my profile. Pleasuredom… so i asked if i could ask personal sexual questions and that she was comfortable enough to respond truthfully. She agreed.