We had gone to an “Adult” club near us a few times, but normally just walked around to sightsee. Having discussed threesomes and such but never took it much further than that. I knew she had interest in other guys as most married women do, but she kept it mainly to herself. With her work she was around men most of the day and I got to know some of them, and could tell a good amount had an interest in her. With her being a smaller Asian women, with that darker skin and longer black hair men seemed to always be curious about her. There was one guy in particular that I could tell was really into her. I never talked to her about it until after he got transferred to another office in a different state.
He was Caucasian like I was and after he started traveling back to our city a few times a year I suggested we get to together for drinks or dinner. She was into the idea and of course he was as well. After a few times meeting personally like this we got to know him more and learned that he was in a dead bedroom situation. They had been married a long time and with a few kids so he didn’t want to change that. He also mentioned how his wife made him get a vasectomy years back and then quickly after stopped having sex with him.