I belong to a traditional family (no premarital sex, no drinking, no smoking) and so does my friend. She is dating someone while I am not. We also live in different cities so it’s hard to meet but she is my oldest online friend and we met only once prior to this.
Very coincidentally I had to attend wedding parties in her city and my entire family decided to go. On the day we decided to meet, I made up an excuse that I had to attend another friends wedding so I would be in the furnished apartment alone. Normally in this city weddings last longer than usual so I had a nice 4 hour window. I also had to go collect my family and make a cameo at my cousins wedding so it was safe that no one would come back to our apartment.