I am 21 and currently attending a small university in the Bible Belt (groan).
Anyway, I have a job near campus and ran into someone who is staff at my school. I had only spoken to him in passing until a month ago. We wound up talking for a bit and talked more when we met on campus in the past few weeks. He is 33, single and super smart. But….he's 33….I can't do this, or can I? We're also both bi.
Fast forward to last Friday when I'm out drinking with a couple of my friends and I see him with a friend at a bar. I end up sitting next to him and we hit it off even more which leads to us exchanging numbers. We wind up texting into the early hours of the morning during which I express an interest in meeting up with him Saturday night.
I had butterflies, big time. Also, this guy is really chill and laid-back so it was hard to get a read on him so I Went in for the kill. I sat next to him in the booth and slowly inched closer as we ate to gauge his reaction. By the time we were halfaway through I was hip to hip with him and he eventually had his hand on my thigh.