For past 6 years or so, I’ve been involved with a man 35 years older than me. He is was my grandma and sisters boss at one point. I came out to him when I was 14, he was really supportive and told me how to tell people and how to handle the grief people would give me.
About 6 years ago, he messaged me on Grindr – needless to say he was quite keen to have a go with me (I was 22, in very good shape and he was quite tubby, bald and quite ugly but had a huge cock). I agreed to it but with a few rules and went round and did our thing.
Next time we met, he introduced me to bondage. After the first time, I was hooked. He got darker and darker with each session.
He filmed us a few times and sent the videos out to his mates who would often join him in the sessions.