On occasion, I’ll check out the various hookup subreddits. I live in a big city and there are always a lot of posts for my area. It’s always a lot of fun to fantasize about meeting up with someone, but it’s not something I ever really intend to do. I’ll message, flirt, and sext a little and that will kind of be that. A few months ago I sent a response to a guy who was visiting my city for business who had posted on RAOMD. We didn’t end up getting together, so I was surprised when he messaged me saying he would be back this past weekend and wanted to see if we could get together. I had thought his picture was cute, so we started chatting.
I was still kind of feeling noncommittal about the whole thing (I mean, meeting up with a strange man for sex just sounds like the beginning of a Dateline episode), but I really liked that he didn’t jump right into trying to sext and that he seemed cool and respectful. But I wasn’t fully convinced until we inevitably did start sexting and he sent me a video of him jerking off because, wow… his cock was amazing and I wanted it so badly.