How I Fucked [M]y G[F]’S Best [F]riend

In our early 20s, my wife (Crystal) had a BFF named Nadia. This was her best friend since childhood and they remained relatively close in the few years after high school. Nadia was attending school at a university in Southern California while Crystal and I remained up North for college. I met Nadia while she was visiting for Winter Break. Her and I did not get along well at first. She was not a great friend to Crystal and I was quick to point this out. We butted heads often, which eventually turned into this weird sort of sexual tension that Crystal started to encourage.

*OBLIGATORY STATS*

**Crystal**: Brunette, 5’1”, 120(ish) lbs, slim thick with sexy Latina curves and plump red lips

**Nadia**: Dirty blonde, 5’3”, 140(ish?) lbs, curvy Latina with GIGANTIC tits

**Me**: 5’7”, 175 lbs, stocky former college athlete with some fluff, light brown skin with darker Latino features that makes me look ethnically ambiguous

*CONTINUE*

[MF] Our journey into non-monogamy: A short History

My wife and I have been together for over ten years. During this time, our relationship has taken on many forms. While the foundation of our relationship was founded on monogamy, we soon discovered that our sexual fantasies went beyond the vanilla realm. Early in our relationship, I can remember my wife pointing out attractive females to me when we’d be out in public: “Don’t look now but there’s a girl with a great ass standing at your 6:00.” I remember finding this so refreshing, like I didn’t have to hide the fact that I found others attractive because my new girlfriend is a perv too.

Over the course of the last decade, the boundaries of our relationship have expanded and contracted. We started our experiments with a single lady within the first year of dating but soon realized that neither of us were ready for that yet. Fast forward a few years and we begin discussing the idea of an open relationship after listening to a series of podcasts. This lasted about a year with many instances of successful and terrible dates with others. We soon decided to get engaged, then married with the thought of giving monogamy another chance. Our newest iteration of monogamy came to a screeching halt after an impromptu same room experience with some close friends of ours. This lead to us doing some deep research into the world of ethical non-monogamy and the Swinging Lifestyle which is where we are currently situated in our quest.