My wife, Morgan, and I have started exploring our sexuality in a number of different ways over the last few months. We opened our marriage in March, started having sex almost daily for the first time since we were first having sex, and my wife is exploring more of the kinks that she is interested in for the first time ever. So overall, it’s been a lot of fun. But one thing we have been exploring more is her role as a sub, and how to incorporate that into our lives more. I am not really a natural dom; I like to lead, but I’m not one to order or be rude, so I’ve naturally taken more of a gentle dom type of role in our relationship.
Last week, my wife and I were sitting in bed, just hanging out and not doing anything particularly interesting, when the idea of taking the BDSM test came up. We had taken it a long time ago, but as things had changed quite a bit, it seemed time to do it again. We had fun talking about it, reacting to all the questions, and then comparing our results. I don’t fully remember them, but our top ones were fairly complimentary, with me being more of a dominant and her being submissive, her enjoying the idea of being tied up and be being into that, and a dash of sadist to her masochist.