[M]y [F]irst Cheater [M19/F18] [Long]

[How I Met Another Cheater]

This was my first experience with a girl who had an interest in kink. I was a young guy when this happened, so forgive me for my rose tinted glasses. I was in my first year at university, I regularly went to the gym and I was just doing the generic shit that single guys did back then, I went to bars, I got phone numbers, facebooks (this was pre-tinder)

During my first year of class enrollment one of my friends from high school suggested that we try out a new language. We studied German together in high school, but when he traveled to Japan he started to get into that Weeb culture, so he suggested we tried Japanese. It was double credits for me if I passed a Japanese course and at the time I was looking at a career in International Business, so I figured I may as well.

What we discovered when taking that class was that it was fucking hard. The introductory subject was designed to cover the entire high school curriculum in 12 weeks. We had 12 weeks to learn basic speaking, reading and writing in a language that was so different from ours, we felt truly fucked. In response to this we tried forming a study group.

My girlfriend’s roommate [MF] [Cheating]

[Prologue]

Last year I thought I was kicking goals. I finished university and landed a graduate position at my dream law firm. I was losing weight, exercising regularly and I had a girlfriend that was fairly good to me. However, not all good things are built to last. Fast forward 12 months and well, not everything was coming up milhouse.

After 12 months in hell at my ‘dream firm’ I quit my job, with the promise of a new position to fall through at the last moment and I was unemployed for a good couple of months. It was during this time that I started getting bored with my life. I realised that I was one of ‘those people’ – the ones whose career was literally their identity. I was spiralling. My applications to new positions were falling flat and my network was failing me.