[F] Female swelling after oral!?

Omg hi! So this isn’t a wild story but it’s a question that I can post in the sex thread bc… ANYWAYS ? Any females out there where like if you receive oral for a while your clit is literally engorged or so swollen that you can’t really find that one tip/ point that will bring you to an orgasm? I love oral but if I’m not for the guys face I probably won’t cum but even if I’m laying down and receiving, afterward if I’m rubbing while I’m being fucked and can’t really find that one stop where I can. Like without for play I could rub and cum in like 1 minute but if I’m so swollen from someone sucking I can’t find where it is ainssmwjajansjsjs I’m screaming bc I hate it! I like cumming on dick and it’s prevents me. Weird

[F] Have you every cum so hard that you literally pushed him out?

About two weeks ago me and one of my exes were hooking up and I was literally cumming so hard that I ended up pushing him out pulsing pussy with my vagina muscles or something LOL and he was like did you try to stop your orgasm? and I was like no it literally just pushed you out like I had no control of it. It was so funny, the orgasm was fucking amazing though! Just wanted to know if any others have felt that and talked about it haha