Recently my high school sweetheart broke up with me. I was devastated, she was my first for a lot of things… but not sex. We fooled around a lot, constantly gave each other oral while trying to be quiet in her parents’ basement after school. I wanted to go all the way with her and she wanted to lose her virginity to me but she wanted some privacy, not wanting to get fucked silly in her parents’ house. I thought that was fair. I moved into an apartment for college and suggested that we’d finally get a room alone together and she was excited by the prospect… But out of the blue she later told me she felt we were growing apart and then I never saw her again.