A little backstory. My wife and I have been together for 15+ years and have had our fair share of ups and downs as far as jealousy is concerned. It’s affected everything from our sex life to our relationship in general. It all came to a head about four years ago, when during another prolonged period of me not giving her the attention she deserved, she found it from someone else. Nothing physical happened, but I came to find out that she had been flirting explicitly with this guy for some time. Following a brief period of introspection, we both decided that it was time to attack our issues head on so we could save our relationship. Initially this involved some very light fantasizing, but over time it has increased in intensity, to the point that we quite regularly express how hot it would to be to experiment, such as threesomes, swinging etc…
Up to this point though the talk was almost exclusively reserved for fantasy during any sexual activity. And while our sex life, and our relationship for that matter, has really never been better/stronger, the fantasizing was just that and the talk would never extend outside the bedroom.