(**Note:** All names have been changed. All events are true, although given I was under the influence at points, the order/sequence might be out of whack.)
**Optional Backstory:** A few weeks ago I met a woman from a kink- and group-oriented dating app. I’ll call her “Crow”. She’s in a poly-amorous marriage and has a few kinks which overlap with mine. We were supposed to go for a drink with an option to come back to my place, and had arranged it for a Monday, but on the night she messaged me saying they were closed, she was right. Worse, all the bars along that street were closed for a Monday except for one, which I knew nothing about and was quite far from my house. I suggested if she was comfortable, just have a drink and a chat at my place, no expectations.